Crisis Mode: How do you handle a Crisis?
Are you gonna cry about it or are you gonna boss up? First of all, Imma do both.
1. Run from it? (run/ignore it)
2. Sulk in it (pity party)
3. Power through (boss up)
4. All of the above
I even get disappointed with my husband at times for simply not getting it.
Unless a person has been through what you have been through then they won’t understand. The best they can do it try to be understanding and compassionate.
Are you gonna boss up or are you gonna cry about it?
Not recommended but definitely an option. We can live in denial and ignore the problem, hoping it goes away on its own.
I call this giving up. The only difference between a winner and a loser is, the winner did not give up
2.Sulk in it
It is easy to find yourself feeling defeated, enjoying your own little pity party for one. It is easy to feel stuck in the pain, paralyzed by negative thoughts.
Its okay to feel your feelings. Everyone gets tired at some point.
(surround yourself with people who care, cry about if you need to, then boss tf up)
The key is to never let the situation hold you back.
FEEL THE FEELINGS, LEARN THE LESSON, AND USE THAT SAME PAIN TO STEP INTO GREATNESS
3. Power Through
Everybody is not built the same and different people with different life experiences and backgrounds handle things differently.
Even when you feel like giving up, there is always a little bit more of inner strength to be discovered to push on a little more. You must dig deep and have faith to make it through a crisis.
Just like any elite team, the Olympics, (Team USA), The Lakers in their prime, Jay and Bey, … they were trained for this. Even if you have no clue what you are getting into, staying strong will help you succeed.
I’M ALL THREE DEPENDING ON THE SITUATION/DAY
I tend to overthink, overreact and be a drama queen when faced with a new scary situation.
I ask God why me, but I always come out better and stronger than before.
With all the things I’ve dealt with throughout my life, at times I may have seemed broken, but I never quit. I won’t speak those words onto myself because I strongly believe in the power of words. As long as you believe in your own inner strength you are powerful.
I am strong, I am a fighter, I am royalty and I’ll never quit.
In any dilemma you really only have two options; Cry about it or boss up, there is no running, anything you are running from will catch up to you sooner or later and will need to be addressed.
How you handle tough situations shows character and inner strength.
How do you handle your hardest battles? What did you learn from the situation?
P.S. Don’t spend a second thought worried about who is NOT THERE for you. You got this, sis!
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